Chasing Masculinity Men, Validation, and Infidelity
This book analyzes men’s experiences and perceptions regarding their participation in infidelity and offers a glimpse into the inner workings of their most intimate relationships, as well as the ways men negotiate marriages that fall short of their expect
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Chasing Masculinity “Dr. Walker deftly uses social theory and in-depth interviews to explain how social expectations and gender dynamics contribute to the motivations and experiences of men who have affairs. This book will make you rethink your stereotypes about men, and why some ‘cheat’ on their partners and wives. Sure to be a classic in gender, sexuality and family studies!” —Arielle Kuperberg, Associate Professor of Sociology and Women, Gender and Sexuality Studies, UNC Greensboro; Editor-in-Chief of the Council on Contemporary Families Blog @ The Society Pages “Why do men cheat? Through interviews with dozens of cheaters, Alicia Walker sets aside assumptions about infidelity and shows that cheating helps men bolster masculinity. By seeking non-marital sexual—and emotional—connections, men reassure themselves that they are desirable and sexually skilled. They interpret cheating as a way to actually preserve their marriages, while ignoring many of the root causes of their relationship problems such as gender inequality. This is a must read for anyone interested in sexuality or gender.” —Tony Silva, Assistant Professor of Sociology, University of British Columbia “This compelling new book challenges many taken-for-granted assumptions about why men cheat and the types of men who cheat. By examining men’s motivations to pursue affairs online, Walker highlights the emotional aspects of men’s external relationships, revealing that cheating is not just about sex for men. This captivating book thoughtfully considers the complexities of masculinity, intimacy, and infidelity in the digital age, and is highly enjoyable to read.” —Nicole Andrejek, McMaster University, Research Assistant for the Sex in Canada research project “In Chasing Masculinity, Walker examines the experiences of men in the United States who purposely sought out extramarital relationships on the site Ashley Madison. She challenges our preconceived notions and understandings of why men “cheat.” Walker artfully appraises our cultural obsession with infidelity and, by extension, monogamy. She highlights the complexity of negotiating fragile masculinity in often highly sexualized contexts. Memorable quotes and stories allow the reader to question the norms and institutions surrounding
romantic relationships. This book is one individuals will talk about long after they finish reading.” —Barbara F. Prince, Assistant Professor of Sociology, Lebanon Valley College “In this book, Walker challenges commonly held assumptions about marital infidelity through a deeply intriguing qualitative exploration of the extramarital experiences of men seeking emotional fulfillment deemed not present in their primary relationships. The rich narrative and unique methodology of Chasing Masculinity is guaranteed to boost student engagement and stimulate robust discussion within a variety of course delivery platforms on topics including marriage and family, sex and gender, human sexuality, and research methods.” —Michele Lee Kozimor, Professor of Sociology, Elizabethtown Colleg
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